Let your heart and feelings flow freely, unbounded by the constraints of reality. It’s only when they are put into action that they must dance with the world as it is.

~ Adam

In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it’s easy to get caught up in the demands and constraints of reality. We often find ourselves confined by expectations, responsibilities, and the unyielding march of time. But today, let’s take a moment to reconnect with something more ethereal—our hearts and our feelings.

This message above invites us to embrace the freedom that comes from within. Our hearts and feelings are boundless, not restricted by the rules and limitations of the physical world. They are the essence of our true selves, the purest expression of who we are.

However, when we decide to turn those feelings into actions, that’s when they must engage with the world as it is. This doesn’t mean that we should suppress our feelings or ignore our dreams—far from it. Instead, it encourages us to be mindful of the balance between our inner desires and the external world.

By allowing our emotions to flow freely, we give ourselves the space to dream, to imagine, and to connect with our deepest truths. When the time comes to bring those dreams to life, we can do so with a clear understanding of the world around us, allowing our actions to resonate with both our inner selves and the reality we navigate.

So today, let your heart guide you. Feel deeply, dream boldly, and when the moment arrives to act, do so with the grace and wisdom that comes from understanding the dance between your inner world and the one you share with others.

Embrace the stars within you. 🌟

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Navigating the intricate tapestry of relationships, we realize that no single person can fulfill every role we seek. Each connection, whether fleeting or profound, adds a unique thread to our life’s fabric, enriching our journey. Embracing this diversity allows us to appreciate the multifaceted nature of love and companionship, deepening our understanding of the human experience.

~ Love

In my journey through various relationships, I have come to realize that each type of relationship plays a unique role in my life. Sometimes, one person might fulfill multiple roles, but it is rare and challenging for a single partner or person to embody all of these aspects.

Acquaintance
An acquaintance is someone I know on a surface level. We might exchange pleasantries or see each other in specific social settings, but our interactions remain superficial. This type of relationship can be the foundation upon which deeper connections are built, serving as a gateway to deeper intimacy.

Friendship
Friendship goes beyond mere acquaintanceship. My friends are those with whom I share common interests, trust, and mutual respect. They are the people I turn to for support, laughter, and companionship, enriching my life with a sense of belonging and camaraderie.

Adventure/Play
There are relationships centered around adventure and play. These are the people with whom I explore new activities, engage in spontaneous outings, and embrace the joy of experiencing life with a sense of wonder and excitement. They help me stay youthful and energized, bringing fun and novelty into my life.

Muse/Flow
A muse or flow relationship is one where inspiration and creativity flourish. This person ignites my passions, motivates my artistic pursuits, and helps me tap into a state of flow where I lose track of time and immerse myself in creation. Their influence can be profound, often leading to significant personal and creative breakthroughs.

Co-Creation
In co-creation relationships, I collaborate with others to bring ideas to life. Whether it’s a business venture, a project, or an artistic endeavor, these relationships are about teamwork, shared vision, and collective effort. Together, we merge our talents and energies to produce something greater than we could achieve individually.

Familial
Familial relationships are those I share with my family members. These bonds are often deep-rooted and enduring, providing a sense of belonging, history, and unconditional love. They form the bedrock of my identity and support network, often shaping who I am and how I navigate the world.

Growth
Relationships focused on growth are those where mutual development is a priority. With these individuals, I seek to expand my knowledge, challenge my limitations, and support each other’s personal and professional progress. These relationships inspire continuous improvement and lifelong learning.

Spiritual
Spiritual relationships nurture my soul and help me connect with something greater than myself. These individuals might share similar beliefs or practices and support me on my spiritual journey. Together, we explore the deeper meanings of life, purpose, and connection to the universe.

Romantic
Romantic relationships are those filled with love, affection, and intimacy. They are characterized by a deep emotional connection and often involve a commitment to building a life together. These relationships offer a unique blend of companionship, passion, and shared dreams.

Sexual
Sexual relationships focus on physical intimacy and sexual connection. They can exist independently of romantic relationships or be an integral part of them. Sexual expression in these relationships can range from casual encounters to deep, intimate connections that enhance emotional bonds.

Container
A container relationship provides a safe and supportive space for emotional expression and vulnerability. In these relationships, I feel secure enough to share my deepest fears, desires, and truths. They offer a sanctuary where I can be my authentic self without judgment.

Alchemical
Alchemical relationships are about merging to birth a soul or combining souls in a dance to become one. These connections are profoundly transformative, often creating a deep sense of unity and spiritual awakening. Through this process, we experience profound change and a sense of becoming something greater together.

Healing
Healing relationships are those where mutual support and care facilitate emotional and physical healing. These relationships are characterized by empathy, compassion, and a nurturing presence. They help mend wounds, both old and new, providing comfort and restoration.

Household
Household relationships involve sharing living spaces and daily responsibilities. These individuals are my roommates or cohabitants with whom I navigate the practical aspects of life, such as chores and finances. These relationships require cooperation, respect, and effective communication to maintain harmony.

Financial
Financial relationships involve economic interdependence or cooperation. This might include shared financial goals, investments, or supporting each other financially. These relationships require trust, transparency, and mutual respect to manage resources effectively.

Co-Parenting
Co-parenting relationships are those where we jointly raise children. Whether we are romantic partners or not, our primary focus is on the well-being and upbringing of our children. These relationships require collaboration, communication, and shared values to provide a stable environment for the children.

Co-Caregiver
In co-caregiver relationships, we share the responsibilities of caring for someone in need, such as an elderly parent or a disabled family member. These relationships require coordination, empathy, and a strong sense of duty. They often involve emotional and physical labor, demanding resilience and compassion.

Mentorship
Mentorship relationships involve guidance, support, and teaching from a more experienced individual. In these relationships, I receive wisdom, advice, and encouragement to develop skills and achieve my goals. Mentorship can be a powerful catalyst for personal and professional growth.

Intellectual
Intellectual relationships are centered around the exchange of ideas, knowledge, and stimulating conversations. These relationships challenge my thinking, broaden my perspectives, and ignite my curiosity. They are marked by mutual respect for each other’s intellect and a shared passion for learning.

Creative
Creative relationships involve collaboration and inspiration in artistic or innovative endeavors. Whether it’s co-writing a story, painting, or brainstorming new ideas, these relationships thrive on shared creativity and the joy of making something together.

Therapeutic
Therapeutic relationships are those where one or both partners provide emotional support and guidance similar to what a therapist might offer. These relationships are characterized by deep listening, empathy, and a focus on emotional well-being and mental health.

Pet/Animal
Relationships with pets or animals provide companionship, emotional support, and unconditional love. These bonds can be deeply fulfilling, offering comfort and joy without the complexities of human interaction.

Professional
Professional relationships are those we form in our workplace or career-related contexts. These connections are often based on mutual goals, respect, and the pursuit of common professional interests.

As I reflect on these diverse relationship types, it becomes evident how demanding it can be for one person to embody all these roles. Each type requires different skills, levels of engagement, and emotional investment. While some people might naturally integrate multiple aspects, expecting a single partner or person to fulfill all these roles can place undue pressure on the relationship. Instead, recognizing and valuing the unique contributions of each relationship in my life allows me to appreciate the richness and complexity of human connections.

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Life is like giving birth.
Remember to rest between the contractions of your growth path.

With every moon,
Let it illuminate your shadows

Drop into it
and Swivel your hips

and moan and breathe

So that you can surrender
into the expansion

and release lineage wounds,
childhood pain,
Suppressed anger, fear and sadness.
….

Then when the moon wanes,

* REST *

You don’t need to keep pushing.

Another contraction
will come along shortly!

And it will be another opportunity for personal growth.

Trust the process.
Ride the waves.
Know that life is about giving birth to yourself.

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I had a dream last night that Kali was dancing with her many arms,
spinning her web like a Spider.🕸️

I’ve never linked Spider Medicine with Goddess Kali’s mysteries.
But! They seem to go hand in hand.

Like the spider, Kali is hard to look at.
With her bloody fangs and many arms, Kali is the destroyer of illusion.
And the spider is known in shamanic traditions as an ancient symbol of power, mystery and growth.
~~ 🕸️

Kali, as a spider, reminds us that we weave the web of our own lives.

This web is woven based on our beliefs…
including illusionary beliefs that we choose to incorporate into our environment.

Kali is the destroy of illusions!
And our modern age is filled with illusions.

Most of them stem from other’s people’s fears,
which lead to us feeling manipulated and controlled by others–
in the name of safety, love, or healing.

What have you been believing in that caused you to weave your web with illusions?

Are you trapping yourself in your own web?
Are you sucking the life out of yourself?

It doesn’t matter if other people are choosing to weave these illusions into their web,
This is your life and it’s time to KALI-CHOP the illusions out of your story.

~~ 🕸️
So, I guess….Since I’m the one who dreamed about it –
It’s time to chop illusions out of mine <3

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“Stop trying to Build your Business and start trying to Build Real Community”

A voice whispered to me this morning

“Stop focusing on your popularity and start focusing on Breaking Down the System.”

“Stop worrying about your income stream and know you are supported when you trust your guidance.”

The voice says,

It’s time to BUST suppressive illusions.

And it’s time to embrace real learning, real growth, real community, and REAL POWER.

It’s time to show our vulnerability, take off our “teacher” masks, truly embrace WHO WE each ARE, and support each other.

WELCOME TO FAETERRA! Magick on Earth!

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I want to embody Tantra the way I know it in my bones!

~~~~
My HERstory:

I joined the “Tantra” community in 2008.
I had experienced a spiritual awakening initiated by Shakti and Siva themselves (really!)

And I was given the gift of a sexual, spiritual sight that catapulted me into the inner circle of “Tantric” educators.

The sight included:
– the ability to see sexual energy grids —
in the body, and outside of the body

I could also access the ways spiritual sexuality was utilized in different traditions and cultures.

I remembered the ways of Inanna and Lilith in Mesopotamia, Sehkmet & Isis in Egypt, Siva and Shakti in India…
~~~**

And! Let’s just say….
That as I spent time with the Tantric community in our western world.

I was surrounded by perversions.
Lead educators were predators
& manipulated new seekers into intercourse.

Female educators were often disconnected from their own body power~~

but taught as if they are connected.

And I was told that~~
Wounding is the main reason why people become Tantric Educators.
(A wounding that they never heals….)

But I’ve been looking for the strength of the Priestesses!

~~~**
Fast forward to starting OurRedTent.com years ago.
When I decided that we needed to empower women, before they enter these so-called Tantric play pens.

And we did a great job educating that Sex is connected to more than “monogamy and polymory”

We did our shadow work, we embraced our emotions, we understood our family lineage’s Sexual traumas as it is running through our blood.

We gave our menstrual blood to the earth and gazed at the moon, to understand the grid that’s connects us to each other…..
As we are infinitely connected to something greater than ourselves.

We learned the ways of the Devadasis- the ancient Temple Dancers. The Tantrikas. The Sex Priestesses of inanna in Mesopotamia, and Sehkmet in Egypt. We remembered the lineage of isis.
We celebrated the Nymphs!

We identified what a predator is! And learned how to bring all people back to their hearts.

~~~**
Now, I’ve transitioned to a new phase of my life.

I’m married. In a closed sexual container for the means of sexual alchemy.

And I am desiring to meet other people willing to go to this place.

We call it an “all chakra” Tantra.

Which means, if you desire to transform through union, you must commit to working through each one of your layers. Opening everything from root to crown.

Exposing Trauma is inevitable. And the discomfort is part of the journey to your new home.

But! There is also an incredible joy! A play! An understanding of our own sexual life force and the pleasures in it!!

It’s the reclaiming of our own bodies~~
in a “Whole-y-er” way!

~~~**

I want to form a “Pleasure Coven” with WOMEN in serious relationships, to work through blocks and dance in our sexual life force together. We need to come back to sexual innocence!

I want to form an “Intimacy Coven” for couples to meet, to share their stories and enjoy moving forward together.
(I have a plan for how we do this! )
~~~**

I want to return the sexual energy current on this planet back to its rightful purity!!!
(Which is a trigger word for most people)

And!!!
I am tired of people telling me “the way things are— is just the way it is.”

……
……

with that….

FaeTerra is starting events in person and online.

If what I said here resonates with you,
Join us!

Where are you in your romantic relationship?
How can we support each other?

Let’s BE the CHANGE!

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My friend created an affiliate program for her business.

She wanted me to support her platform, but felt uneasy asking.

She said,” I don’t know how to work with you. You don’t do anything for money.”

This is true.
When I work with people its because I want to.
Money is a bi-product. But not my priority.

I replied, I’ll help your business grow because I love you. I dont need more in return.

~~~

I’ve been told I have a unique perspective on money.
Last week, a personal development coach who runs a high income business asked me,
“Do you feel like you are charging what you are worth?

<< Head Tilt  >>

I replied,” I’m invaluable. There is no amount of money that reflects my worth.
I work with whoever my heart is attracted to. And I charge what feels right.

He continued,
“Ok. But If you can make the same amount of money. Or ten times that amount of money, what would you choose?”

I repeated,
“I work with whoever my heart calls me to work with.  And charge them what feels good for both of us.”

I believe this mentality is important to ensure that we are working with the right people.
If we all worked with people, simply because we get paid…..
We’d become jaded.

We’d forget the magick of true support, real community and friendship.

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Everyone’s mothers and fathers have made mistakes.
And for some, these mistakes have left permanent wounds.

There are very few role models on this planet to show us how to live
fearlessly, compassionately, and collaboratively.

The fact that we still crave community and relationship,
in an eat or be eaten world is REMARKABLE.

For those of us whose hearts yearn for connection beyond all the bullshit ~

Let me remind us all!
that Everyone hurts.

Forgive yourself for being human.

Be Kind. Be Gentle. Be Compassionate. Relax.

Everyone is doing the best they can.

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